What do you do when you need to make a decision?

You're out of college and you've been offered two jobs. They're both similar and you could see yourself enjoying both. You're not sure where the Lord is leading.

Not sure why but it seems the decisions I labor the most over are the ones related to vocation. Maybe it has something to do with men being called to work. Adam was called to tend the Garden of Eden. Working was his main purpose in life. Not that it's my number 1 priority, but I do find fulfillment in what I'm doing. Maybe I'm alone on that, but I would guess other men feel the same way. Do any of you ladies feel similar in relation to work?

Anyway, there are a few things I do when I'm faced with a decision.

1. Consider whether I'm right with God and am in communion with Him. If there is major sin in my life, then how could I expect God to give me clear direction?
2. Consider a desire. Could I find fulfillment in doing the thing I'm considering. I don't believe we should seek our own detriment in vocation unless there is a strong pull from the Holy Spirit.
3. Consider the opinions of mentors. This could be family or friends. I don't think it's important for me to listen to people who don't know me well or don't know the situation well. Those who know me best are the people I ask. And I listen to their views and consider them strongly.
4. Follow Scripture. It's not God's will for you to go against His Word. God is not calling you to divorce your wife because she's getting on your nerves. I promise.

What do you do when you're trying to decide something?

Jacob