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Stupidity: Doing the Same Thing and Expecting Different Results

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Oct 14, 2009 Author: 
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A lot of churches and Christians are realizing there is a generation that is walking out the back door of the church.

That's wonderful.

Not that it's happening, but that people are finally realizing it.

BUT, it doesn't end there. Only acknowledging a problem does not fix it. You have to actually act on it.

So the question really becomes, what are you going to do about the problem?

I don't have the answers. I really don't. I don't know of one model that will fix this. The faith at home movement has some good things to say about parents being involved with their kids and being spiritual mentors, but that doesn't say what to do about the current generation that has already left who have already turned mom and dad off. So there's some talk, but I don't see it as solving the problem completely.

My deal is, you can't do the same things in church and expect different results.

Are twentysomethings leaving your church? Then if you want to keep them, you can't do the exact same things you've been doing!

I read the following from Outreach magazine's September/October 2009 issue. This is a quote from Joel Hunter, a pastor from Florida:

"If younger and/or more secular people were going to be interested in church for the traditional reasons, they'd already be with us."

Wow.

Dude, doesn't that punch you right in the stomach?

The pastor is like, "Hello!? If it was working, they would still be here!!!"

You've got to do something different!

Like I said, I'm not claiming to know what the change is. I'm just saying that doing the same thing and expecting different results is stupidity.

@jacobriggs

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Tyler
Oct 14, 2009
10:28 am
Love that. So true but nobody wants to hear that, so people let it go in one ear and out the other.
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Brandon
Oct 23, 2009
11:21 am
I think one of the reasons that some people don't give as much credit to that line of thinking as others is that many feel loving God and serving in the local church is an issue of personal devotion and responsibility. Most of the twentysomethings that I know who are involved in church now do so because they feel they should even if they are not completely happy with the way their church does everything. I don't see them leaving. Follow Jesus' model when he called people to follow Him. He didn't "do" anything that would make it seem fun, exciting, or even safe. And if people decided it wasn't worth it, they didn't go. He said, "I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life; Follow me or don't." Now I'm not advocating that we shouldn't make attempts to reach people...not at all. But ultimately what can we offer besides the simple truth that Jesus is God and he wants you? If they say yes, we give them opportunities to get involved (this is where I think many churches are failing), but if not, what can we do? P.S. By the way, I'm not saying that we become stagnant because we hate change, but that I fear trying to cater to this group and that leads to this consumer notion of church attendance: I don't like the music here, or they're to traditional here, or that preacher is to loud...
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